‘Free Love’ by Tessa Hadley (2022) – 285 pages
I have been quite critical as well as quite complimentary of the writing of Tessa Hadley in past reviews. However I keep reading her works, because she writes those rarities, substantial novels. This time I will be praising her, mostly.
Perhaps a key to Tessa Hadley’s writing is this quote of hers:
“If I met my characters, I might not like them.”
Whereas most writers seem to bend over backwards to create characters their readers will like, Hadley writes about her characters more honestly and objectively and thus more deeply than other writers.
“Under the placid surface of suburbia, something was unhinged.”
Forty year-old Phyllis is wife to husband Roger who works in the foreign office and mother of Colette who is 15 and Hugh who is 9. The year is 1967, not long after The Pill became widely available and ancient history now, and women are just discovering they can do things that were unthinkable only a few years before. The young guy Nicky is one of the lucky beneficiaries of this new-found women’s freedom.
One day Phyllis is a dutiful wife and mother, and the next day she is scrounging around making up excuses to the family for her extended absences. Nicky can hardly believe his good fortune. It all started with a kiss in the dark.
“No one had kissed her like that, so wetly and hungrily, in all the years of her marriage; that space had been unfilled in her passionate nature.”
Hadley makes it quite clear that this affair between Phyllis and Nicky is all about sexual excitement and very little about love or even mutual liking. Soon Phyllis makes a complete break with her family and moves in to the London apartment building with the young Nicky.
“There wasn’t any point, she told herself, in thinking about the children. No reparation could be made for what she’d done.”
However, of course, Nicky’s mind and body soon start to wander.
This “love” story starts out quite straightforward, but complications develop that make things “as fatally twisted as a Greek drama”. These complications weren’t entirely believable to me.
In the first half of ‘Free Love’ we see things mainly from the point of view of the mother Phyllis. In the second half of the novel, the focus shifts somewhat to the fifteen year-old daughter Colette. It is difficult for the daughter when the daughter is not as good looking as the mother.
Tessa Hadley does not allow undue emotion to get in the way of her even-handed view of the circumstances and predicaments of her characters, and that makes her fiction more reliable and ultimately more true.
Grade: A




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